If someone wrongs you within the NMHS Alumni of the Seventies.

I really love this high school alumni group that I am in.  It is growing and I believe that many of us are actually closer now than when we were in high school.  As the group goes forward, there will be times when one of us will do things that will hurt someone else in the group.  The question then becomes; how do we handle those times.  

I have no authority and this is strictly my opinion.  I think that the best course of action is the one of love.  So, how does love handle such things.  The first thing is to contact that person on a one to one basis.  It could be that what is going on is a simple misunderstanding or something that is unintentional.  If we go to that person first instead of running to someone else or blasting them on Facebook or some other service, then we can restore the friendship instead of making things worse.

If  things cannot be worked out on a one to one basis then get one or two others to join in the process.  A true friend who loves both people can be a big help in working things out.  

If the situation still not worked out, then this would be the spot to let the whole group know.  About 100 - 1000 posts on a wall can be an eye opener, especially if that person is told that until this is resolved then as far as we are concerned, they graduated from that other high school.  ;-)

I feel like we have a great group and I do not want to lose any friends.  I think that as long as we lived loved and love each other, then things will be good.